Saturday, October 25, 2008

Stress Management: 3 Simple Ways to Handle Your Stress.

Here are some easy tips on how to manage your stress.

More times than not stress tends to sneak up on us.  It can cower in the corner and spring out at any of us-- men, women, children, workers, retirees and everyone in between. Stress will eventually affect you no matter what.It can be a friend or it can be a foe.This is your choice.

You will suffer physically if you allow stress to take your life over.Doctor's have said that between 75 and 90 percent of patients they have seen relate stress to their illness.

It does not necessarily have to be that particular way. You can turn stress into serenity by following any of these three successful stress management methods: (1) Control the meaning you assign to the stress; (2) Change the situation that produces the stress, and (3) Control the effects that stress has on your body.

Adjust Your Attitude To Change Your Perspective

If worry is a major stressor in your life or you are frustrated that others behave poorly or without your sense of morality, your stress derives mainly from how you interpret the world. If you want to know the best way to address the type of stress you might have, you need to look at stress management psychology.

The main component in the stress management method is that your thoughts cause the stress, not a situation.  Write down your stress-inducing thoughts when they happen.  Relate the situation and the people involved.  Understand that thoughts determine feelings. If you want to control your feelings, you need to control your thoughts.You don't necessarily have to change your opinion, just change the way you think about you opinion.When you realize and accept this concept, the stress management method will become easier for you.

Change The Situation

If your present situation is at the heart of your stress and damaging your sense of control and self esteem and you know you have to make a change, then you may choose to use a different stress management method.

By defining the problem first, you will be able to change your situation.  Once you have defined the problem, and then brainstorm ideas to change it while listing the risks and rewards of each idea.  If nothing clicks the first time, leave it or a day or two and come back to it.  Every stress management method takes time.

Control The Effects

If the safety valve for your stress is physical, for instance, you experience a lot of colds and headaches, or experience high blood pressure or asthma, that is your body's way of saying that you’ve had enough. If you have a physical stress management solution, you won't be as physically stressed.Plenty of sleep, eating healthy foods, exercise frequently and get rid of your caffeine, alcohol, and sugar intake.

When we incorporate both the mind and the body in our stress management methods, we increase our ability to balance stress.

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